Saturday, May 31, 2008

Here she is...

Here is our first photo of our little girl! (Yes, it is a little hard to see and understand if you are not sure what you are looking at. Luckily the tech sort of explained it to me again before we left the appointment.) We had a little scare with her umbilical cord. We had to have an ultrasound done yesterday to make sure everything was OK and praise be to God it was!! She weights approx. 1 pound 5 ounces and is right on target. She kept her hand by her face the entire time. They tried to make her move and sometimes she would. As soon as they got ready to zoom in, she fell right back into her place.

After the appointment Mrs. Susan and I went to Babies R Us to register. I really only registered for the big things we needed that I couldn't get here in town. However, you could spend an entire day in there just looking. We found a pretty little frame for her picture and a really cute photo album.

Last night we started taking down the furniture in the spare bedroom and moving to the other spare bedroom. We cleaned the carpet in one of the rooms last night and got up this morning and started in the soon to be nursery. Andy has worked so hard getting things moved and cleaned! I tell you, this little girl has already gotten him wrapped around her finger!!! I will post pictures as the room comes together. We still look at each other and wonder if this really is a dream. God is good and faithful! He has definitely given us the desires of our heart. Please continue to pray for our birth mom as she is given us such an amazing gift. She truly is an amazing person.

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Our journey...

Friday

Wow! God is good!! The title of our blog describes so much about our life at this very moment! It is HIS PLAN AND OUR JOURNEY! For those of you who know me well know that I love to have a plan, almost always... Well, God has taken control, taken me out of my comfort zone and given us a new journey. We found out today that we will be bringing home a sweet little bundle of joy on or around September 20! Yes you read that correctly and NO I am not 6 months pregnant!!! We were notified only moments ago that we were chosen as parents to a precious little one. SHOCKED, AMAZED, SCARED, SPEECHLESS, those all describe what I feel right now. My husband on the other hand is Mr. Calm and continues to remind me that "it will all work out just fine...it's in God's hands..." We are over joyed and are off to tell our family!

Monday Night

It's still hard to believe that in a little over 3 months this house will be filled with laughter, tears, cries, diapers, bottles, etc. It's starting to sink in. We spent Friday afternoon and Saturday morning sharing the good news with our family. Each time we shared our news, we got a different look and lots of questions... You are due when... How far along... That's only 3 1/2 months away... WOW! My mother informed me this morning that I only have 16 weeks to get things together before our little one arrives.


We were both off today and spent most of the morning cleaning out the two extra rooms in our house. We had a yard sale just a few weeks ago and thought we did a great job cleaning out our "junk." Well around lunch time we took a truck load of "stuff" to the Salvation Army. It really looks good. We still have a lot to do in the spare bedroom which will soon be the "nursery." We are very blessed to have so many little ones around who have outgrown their swing, high chair, crib, pack n play, etc. Mrs. Susan and I went to Target on Saturday to return a shirt and came home with several things for our little one. My favorite is this amazingly soft, cozy little blanket. My mom bought the first pack of diapers! Oh, it's so much fun. :-)


We will go tomorrow to meet our birth mom. I am excited but very nervous. It's hard to believe we will be meeting the mother of our baby. I pray that she will know how grateful we are to her for allowing us the privilege to raise her little one. She will be giving us a gift like we have never received before. If all goes well, we will go with her to her Doctor's appointment. We will hopefully be able to hear our babies heart beat for the first time as well as find out if we are going to bring home a baby boy or a baby girl. We have always said that we didn't want to find out, we wanted it to be a surprise. Well when you are adopting there are so many surprises that we decided that at least this is one thing that won't be a surprise! :-) We will update as soon as we know.

Tuesday Night

Today was amazing. Andy and I left home around 7:45 this morning and got home around 7 tonight. We are absolutely exhausted! We had a great lunch with our birth mother. She is such a strong individual. She really cares about her baby and only wants what is best. There were moments when we laughed and cried, but mostly laughed. After lunch she invited us to go with her to her doctors appointment. Around 3:30 this afternoon I heard the most amazing, beautiful sound, our baby's' heartbeat! Yes, we were allowed to go with her to the Doctor's appointment and I got to be with her during the ultrasound. Looks like we are going to have a DADDY'S GIRL!! How exciting. :-) We did not receive any pictures of the ultrasound nor did we get to bring a copy of it home. However, she will be having another one in a few weeks and we hope that we will then be able to show our little girl off. Today she weighs a little over 1 pound! It is hard to describe all that we are feeling right now. However if I ever had a doubt in my mind about "is this God's plan for us" there are none now.

Please continue to check on us as we enjoy this new journey that God has placed in front of us!! :-) It's going to be exciting!

Monday, May 26, 2008

Mema's lemonade

Just about everything Mema makes is amazing! Another one of our favorites is Mema's lemonade. A few summers ago I asked Mema how she makes her lemonade and she said "I don't know... a little of this and a little of that..." So we decided that the next time she made lemonade, I would write down exactly what went in it. Ever since, when summer begins to roll around, homemade lemonade is a must in the McInville household. My wonderful Aunt Lill happened to visit while I was making it. She felt sorry for me and at Christmas she gave us this amazing kitchen tool. We love it and it makes making lemonade so mucheasier. Oh boy have we enjoyed it already this summer and the summer really hasn't begun!!

Tyler's 2nd birthday

Tyler with Uncle "A"

We were able to celebrate the 2nd birthday of a special little man in our life... Tyler. Our good friends Jill and John have a sweet little boy and it is hard to believe that he is already 2. Tyler had a zoo party at the park. Jill found these really cute hats for the kids and gave each of them a sand toy to enjoy while at the party. Our nephew Jay was invited and had a great time playing. It was fun to get to enjoy both boys at the park!

Jay LOVED the cupcake!!

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Grace


Tonight we were able to see Grace in her second dance recital. She looked amazing. She is such a beautiful little girl who is as pretty on the inside as she is on the outside. We were so happy we were able to see her perform.

Grace with Mema and Mrs. Susan. (Mrs. Susan looked great and is doing really well!!)

Grace with her Mom and Dad

Sunday, May 18, 2008

The reason we Relay

This weekend I went home for our Relay. As you know, Relay for Life is very dear to my heart. For the past two years, Mom and I have served on the committee as luminary chair and co-chair. We are responsible for making sure each luminary that is purchased is stuffed with a wooden block (to hold the bag in place), a candle to light during the luminary service and is placed around the track. We got to the track around 10AM to get things together and get ready to start making the bags. This year we were able to work under our tent which was really nice!

Getting started with the luminaries. We had over 500 bags!!!

We used a golf cart to drive around the track to put the luminaries in place.

Once all the bags were in place, we went home to change. While we were gone, a thunderstorm decided to come and it poured for about 30 minutes. Guess what, all the hard work on the luminaries, gone down the drain! Everything got wet and therefore we could not light the candles. This was very upsetting as the luminary service is one of the most amazing events during the night. During this service, the stadium is blacked out, the candles lit and someone reads the name of each person who has a bag in their honor or each bag that was given as a memorial to someone who passed away due to cancer. It is a very emotional time for both survivors and the families of those who have lost loved ones. Oh well, there is always next year!

The start of relay officially begins with the survivors lap. Anyone who is a cancer survivor takes a lap around the field. It is always hard to believe just how many people are affected by cancer, even in a small town. After the survivor lap, is the caregivers lap. During this time, anyone who is or was a caregiver takes their lap around the field. Mom and I always take our lap together!

(Our picture is a little fuzzy...)


Unfortantly it rained several times throughout the night and therefore a lot of people were not able to join us. However, it was a fun night. Around 5AM someone annouced that the sprinklers were about to come on on the field and we may want to move our things off the field. We were in the process of making breakfast for everyone so that made it a little difficult. But we managed and wouldn't you know, our site was the only site that the sprinklers did not effect!

Mom and I finally made it home around 7:45 yesterday morning. So say the least, we were pooped. We are not sure on our total amount raised, but they believe that we raised around $42,000 as a community. Mom and I raised a little over $4000, which was our goal. We have already began to think about ideas for next year.

Here are some fun pictures from the night, I hope you enjoy!




The day started off very windy and our tent did not want to stay in place. Therefore we had to get some reinforcements to tie it down. Scary thinking they trusted me with a hammer...

My amazingly talented Uncle Ed created both of these stained glass peices for our silent auction. They were beautiful and we truly appreciate him doing this for us! People loved them!
Alston and Uncle A with Alston's "Thomas" umbrella.

My brother Bob and his wife Jessica joined us for the evening but had to leave to take care of their little ones. We really enjoyed spending time with them.

Daniel had to work so Claire brought the boys out for the evening.

Someone donated this puppy for a raffle. Jenna and Emily had fun playing with "Relay."

Jennifer is a very dear friend of our family. Although we are not related by blood, she is the closest thing I have to a sister. My Daddy often introduced her as his oldest child and then laughed when people looked puzzled. We are thankful to have Jennifer in our family and I appreciate all that she does for us! (Thanks for being a trooper and spending the night with us at Relay!!)
Mom and I are with Hillary, our American Cancer Society representative. Hillary was a huge help to us! Thanks Hillary!!

Our tent-Although it is really hard to see, the colored pieces of cloth represent the different colors of cancer. The white things at the bottom on the picture would be the rain soaked luminaries...

As you can see, it was a great night. There are not many people who I would stay up all day and all night for. But I guess that's what you do for the ones you love. Here's my reason to relay... My Daddy!

Sunday, May 4, 2008

Kentucky Derby Time


The guys at the Derby party...

We have some great friends who are from Kentucky. They held their 2nd annual "Kentucky Derby Party" yesterday. We enjoy yummy "Kentucky" classics that are traditional "Derby" day food. It is always a great evening! We truly enjoyed the best "two minutes" of racing. Thanks Chris and Charissa for giving us a taste of Kentucky!

The girls at the Derby party...


A fun visit home

Andy and I went to visit Mom on Friday. We were able to see both of my brothers and their families. Friday night we played with Alston, Jake and Emma. It is amazing how big they have gotten. I guess when we don't see them everyday, you really notice the changes. Then on Saturday Daniel brought Peyton and Wilson over for the day. Wilson is walking now and can go wherever he wants. He loves being outside. Mom and I spent a lot of time walking around her farm and he loved ever minute. Peyton is definitely his daddy's child. He loves CANDY! Granny keeps at a stash at all times and that is one of the first things he asks for.


Around lunch time we went to see one of my very best friends, Heather. Heather and I met in kindergarten and have remained friends ever since. She keeps me laughing and smiling! Last July Heather married one of her best male friends from High School, Robert. He is an amazing guy and loves her unconditionally! They are perfect together! About a week after they got married, they moved to CA, which is a very long way away from home. About two weeks ago, Heather informed me they were coming home to let their parents know they had a HUGE surprise, she is pregnant!!!!! (For those of you who know me well, I love surprises but I don't do secrets, it's too hard!! I am proud to say that I didn't tell a soul, except Andy!) I enjoyed getting to catch up with them yesterday. When we are together, it makes me realize just how much I miss her. We are planning to fly out to visit them in the fall. Otherwise we will not see them until Easter of next year. That is such a long time.

Thursday, May 1, 2008

Meet Tyler

After work today I got to visit my college roommate Angie and her new little boy Tyler. He is adorable! He has the sweetest little face. His day gown said "Baby- sent from Heaven" and Tyler is definately that!!!